Showing posts with label School Days. Show all posts
Showing posts with label School Days. Show all posts

Monday, May 4, 2020

Tinkering

Jacob always finds little projects to work on, lockdown or not. These pictures were from a rainy day a few weeks back. Presently he is learning about and building traps. He just demonstrated to me how he could either squash or capture a rabbit (depending on the need). I remember the days when all my kids worked for hours on projects like traps for rabbits and bad guys.


Jacob is one to tinker in the garage nearly every day. He often starts while still in his pajamas–carving, grinding, drilling, banging. He's always dreaming up new ideas and plans, and this lockdown situation has afforded him more time for his projects. If I can, I let him do his history or literature studies on audio, allowing him the freedom to tinker (or to wander). He's currently listening to a +30 hour biography on Andrew Carnegie. Homeschool isn't forever, but for now this sort of freedom is one thing I've been thankful for.


Here he is shaping a scrap of metal into knife blade. He has also been working with wood and leather. Oh yes, and fire.




For those who are kind enough to be concerned about my kids' safety, he was adequately geared up. We try to find a balance between safety and independence around here.

Safety and Independence...

I've tried to keep my opinions to myself about our current quarantine situation. Who really needs my two cents? I think there's far too much opinion floating around, and assumptions posing as conclusions. Everyone seems to be interpreting "data" and "science" based on their personal agenda or desires. Many go looking for reason to be more fearful of potential threat, with their suspicions clouding rationality.

Some want safety (health, predictability, provision, etc.) while others want independence (mobility, choice, free market, etc.). It seems to me that safety and independence seem to be the great dividers, while the great unifier is fear

People will always fear losing what is deemed most important, and if we're not careful fear will become the motivator and controller of thoughts and actions. It's important to discern what it is we fear, and why. It's important to question where our security lies. It's important to evaluate where and on what/who we place our confidence and hope. We should seek to understand the root of our fear, and be open to discovering some hidden idols. Be OK with the discomfort of honest heart evaluation.

An observation I've made over the last couple months: Fear, greed, pride, and discontentment have been contagions far more dangerous than any virus. These contagions cause us to prize our opinions, ideologies, and idols over living for God and loving others. We should never expect to find security and joy here.

Someday, not so very long from now, we will stand before our Maker. How will our words and actions regarding this current situations stand? Will fear of losing our temporal worldly comforts and privileges justify a single word or action? Are we adorning or reviling God's Word and the gospel we claim?

Listen, we are not entitled to anything regarding safety and independence in this life. We have security and freedom in Christ alone. 

Yes, we are privileged to have a particular process in which we can participate with the governance of our affairs, but this is not something God has given to us as a right. We are not entitled to have our way, but if we engage in political endeavors we must do so in honorable ways. Our preferences are not the mission of our lives as believers; don't get too sidetracked in this short life. It is grievous and embarrassing to see Christians stir up fear through gossip and slander of God-appointed leaders in the name of democracy. Likewise, a lack of trust in God's goodness and protective care demonstrates a puny view of God. The world is watching, friends. We are responsible for our behavior. 

I may not know much, but this I know to be of greater importance in our present state:

Fear God alone.
Love one another.
Pray for your leaders.
Submit to authority.
Be thankful.

It is all so very clear that these must be our primary focus. Be attentive and wise by leaning in to your Heavenly Father, and know that blessing always follows obedience. 

Be careful what you tinker with.


I wasn't intending on dispensing opinion. I've never really wanted to use this place as a platform for broadcasting my position, or for being preachy. I guess I just want more for each of us: peace that endures, trust in the unfailing goodness of God, and hope for an eternal future already made secure. May that consume our attention and open our lips in praise, no matter what threatens our safety or independence. God's purposes override viruses and governing authorities.

~Katherine


Monday, October 28, 2019

This Guy...

Homecoming, freshman year






If a boy feels awkward posing for pictures, I've learned to just let him move.
The results are, well, far more dynamic!




At long last, no more braces!


It was so fun to have Olivia home for the occasion.



It's a mom's prerogative to hug her son,
and a boy's milestone to grow right up passed her.



He's so funny, this Andrew guy! Being a little nervous, he was certain the dance floor was not his thing. We all knew differently, though! He can't hold back in the kitchen... and couldn't hold back at homecoming! He had a great night with his friends. In fact, he is absolutely loving high school.


(Size 13!)

~Katherine


Monday, September 2, 2019

Donut Dip 2019

School has been underway for two weeks now, but as tradition would have it we started off the year with another Donut Dip morning. It's what we do on a morning of orientations and book pickup, just as the school year begins. We set out first thing in the morning, pick up a box of donuts, and run into the surf. There really is no time for lingering, but the moments together are savored. Knowing that each school year will bring new opportunities, challenges, and change, we dive into it and revel in the sweet moment of now. Our donut dip is a fun way to do it...


Bedheads are encouraged on this one morning.


Total simplicity is how we do it.



Michael didn't wait for the rest of us. He was too fast for my capture; his leg can been seen in the surf below...


We got one single shot on my camera's timer. Too bad for the guy with the silly run!!


One of my favorite summer activities is playing in the waves with my kids. I'm happy Jon captured the memory for me. I love the fact that this is us- all of us. Together. There is so much bound up in that one word, and gratitude is just one of them. I have much reason for rejoicing!


We moved Olivia into her dorm on Monday (more about that some other time). It's no joke that time goes by quickly. As for the school year, we now have university included to a lineup of community college, public charter, independent study, online classes, and homeschool. In addition to a plethora of other commitments, I feel I have a few too many balls to juggle. Experience has taught me, however, to just keep juggling and picking up the inevitable dropped balls. I'll be better at it when October comes around.

Happy September, friends!


~Katherine

Tuesday, June 11, 2019

Olivia Graduates

It was well before Olivia's second birthday when I decided to start singing the alphabet to her. I'd sing in the kitchen of our Van Nuys apartment as I made lunch and lifted her over my pregnant belly into the high chair. I'd sing first in French, then in English, then French again. Soon afterwards, I bought puzzles of wooden numbers and letters. She loved the green number 7 best; I can still hear her say, "C'est sept! Seven!" with a pronounced lisp and a little jump. 

Then when Baby Michael napped in the morning and I settled on the floor to play with her (now in a Stevenson Ranch condo above a row of garages), we'd color and put together puzzles. When we reassembled the alphabet pieces, I'd casually make the letter sounds. Soon enough, I showed her how one sound followed the next. Then one day on the I-5 in the Santa Clarita Valley we passed by a truck and from her car seat we heard, "Fff-EeeD... E-X... Fed Ex! It says Fed Ex!" And there was no stopping her from there. At age of two, she was reading words; shortly after her third birthday she was reading sentences. Learning blends, digraphs, diphthongs, units (and any other combos of letters I don't know the names of) came by watching me read aloud and pointing as I went. I never had to teach her, but just casually provide opportunity for her to soak in new things.

That's how it has always been. I just gave her the resources (plus hundreds of library books) and provided guidance as needed. She did one year of public school, 8 years of homeschool, then charter school from 9th grade on. In 3 1/2 years she completed high school and one year of college.

Although she finished her high school requirements in December, Olivia graduated with her class on Saturday with a 4.23 GPA. She gave the valedictorian address. 




[above] Olivia, bottom left
[below] Dutiful seat and flower holders




Zoom lens capture...


She spoke sweet, grateful words with poise and candor, acknowledging that for every bit of success she has had the help and guidance of many. I must say the part of her speech that began, "Thank you, Mom and Dad..." was my favorite! ;) There are few things in life that surpass recognition and gratitude from your child.




They all earned this gratifying moment!


Yep, we are super proud parents! And we will be super proud with each of our kids!







We held a small reception for Olivia the evening before. These are the occasions we long to be surrounded by family, but we have a small circle of friends that have loved us like family and proven a friendship that transcends mere shared interests. Some have loved our family as a whole, and some have personally invested in Olivia. They are spiritual family, tried and tested friends. Between hors d'oeuvres, conversations, pool splashes, and ice cream sundaes, we gathered around and gave thanks to God, asking for his blessing and spiritual protection as she faces the next chapter of her life. 

"Strength and dignity are her clothing, 
And she smiles at the future."

May this be said of her all of her days because her confidence is in the Lord above all else!


~Katherine


Monday, May 13, 2019

Prom 2019

I raced home from Jacob's lacrosse game on Saturday to help Olivia get ready for prom. The needle on my gas gauge was below the empty mark as I battled rainy-day weekend traffic on the Interstate. I shot up a flare prayer. There was no time for stopping because she "needed" me to help with her hair before meeting up with her girlfriends for makeup. I didn't want to miss out on the moment. I looked over at Jacob, all sweaty and very crusted with mud from his game, and took mental note. I love this life I get to live right alongside my kids.

My sweet girl. So many thoughts, so much I could say. I will have to wait for another time or another place.

Senior Prom 2019











She was nominated to prom court this year, along with one of Michael's best friends.
I was so grateful to be able to take pictures with a few other proud parents. This is such a special moment in life, one that will be long remembered.









This last shot is somewhat symbolic to me...
It's bittersweet, but I join her in the joy of arriving to this point on the road of life and anticipate much good as she transitions into adulthood. I am so incredibly thankful to God for who she has become, blessed by her friendship, and proud of her accomplishments.



~Katherine


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